What is the different between the loving and to be in love? 26.02.12

What is the different between the loving and to be in love?

    Love is one of the most interesting things in the world. And also we have a popular question - what is the different between the loving and to be in love? I try to give the answer on it.

As to me “to be in love” is simply thing. We can be in love with the first view. It’s very popular nowadays. We are so young when we fall in love and we think that it’s for a long time or forever. Our heart has a lot of feelings – we need our lover every time, think about them. We read romantic books, poems, watching lyrics films. “To be in love” is the first step to the loving, or love.

When you saw a nice person your heart goes “la-la-la”… you need often meets with he or she, you want to hear her or his voice…. You can spend a lot of times on the telephone. Nowadays young person are in the different social pages. They spend their free time in the writing each other – it’s a very important part of their relationship.

   And so often they are thinking that it’s love. But when they meet with the first problem their relationship going to the end. And during one month or a few weeks they found a new lovers or “a part of themselves”.

If you can decide your problems and continue your relationship it’s look like a love. When you really love your boy/girlfriend you think about your future, your together’s future. Your feelings are going to the higher level. You understand that your lovers’ maybe has a difficult and important job and he cannot spend a lot of times with you. But you don’t do a problem from this.

When people love each other with different disadvantage they understand that it is love. But if they just speak about love and don’t do anything they are in love. And nothing more.

   I think that everything in our life has two parts. And I cannot be sure that my mind is right. But it’s my own mind. And P.S. when you meet a real love, you heart will say it for you.